Vest, Adrienne Landau. (Similar here) Sweater, Fashion to Figure. (Similar here and here.) Pants, Fashion to Figure. Bag, Saint Laurent. Shoes, Alexander Wang.
It’s now mid-December. It’s been exactly 4 months since my last blog post, the longest break I’ve taken in 4 years of blogging.
Shockingly the world is still somehow turning.
I know it’s a vain and silly notion that the world will somehow unravel at its axis from a neglected blog, but so much anxiety within the blogging universe stems from the word “consistency.”
Every blogger manual stresses the importance of consistency. You have to blog X amount of times on the exact same day each week, or else your readers will abandon your blog, then your visits will lower and you’ll lose all of the credibility you’ve worked at for nearly half a decade.
However, I call bullshit.
I took a break and it was one of the best decisions I ever could have made.
Sure, my readership dropped and I missed out on partnerships, but it was a small price to pay.
This summer, I was burning out fast—and to be quite honest, my content was crap. I didn’t want to blog, but instead was doing it because of that nagging voice in my head that kept on reminding me: “consistency.”
So what did I do instead of blogging?
I went home to California several times to see my family and didn’t spend the whole time on the computer.
I used the time I’d normally dedicate to commenting on random Instagram accounts deepening my relationships with the people I care about.
Rather than staying up late writing blog posts, I finally caught up on sleep.
I feel rested, my relationships are stronger, and my creativity has come back to me. I want to blog again for all of the reasons I started Madame Ostrich—to share what’s important to me, what inspires me.
However, the most important thing I’ve learned over the past four months of not blogging is that I need to be kinder to myself.
I’m only human and I need to be respectful of my own limits instead of always demanding more, more. It’s hard working a more than full time job and managing a blog. It’s even harder when you’re trying to have a social life and be a good friend to the people you care about.
So, from now on, (or at least for the next month or so,) I’m only going to blog once a week.
I’ll be instagramming and snapping (snapchat: madame_ostrich) daily so we can keep in touch over there, but you’ll be hearing from me every Monday over here.
Have a great week!